Send a message to the person who requested a photo of the grave monument of Harry Tose with the following comment:
I am hoping to confirm details within my family tree with evidence from multiple sources, and I found your site which seems to be a great source of information, especially when you can't easily visit the local sites to see the actual gravestonesWe are unable to help at the moment as we currently live outside of the UK, but may be able to in future